“Well You Do It Too!”

A series on relationships Why are relationships so hard? What is it that we are really looking for from another person? Are we looking to be right all the time or to have things done “our”way? How much do we argue with our partner over the most foolish things? Does the ‘fight’ seem to go on forever, moving from one …

Money Money Money

Why do I feel so insecure around money? How often have I been irresponsible about my spending and told myself I needed whatever it was that I spent my money on and I really didn’t have it ? I can feel like such a loser when it comes to this aspect of my life. Whatever happened to me to end …

Living a Lie

Why am I so lonely? What is it that makes me feel as if I am hiding all the time? Yes, I have people in my life and yes, I can be a good friend but there is a part of me that feels so unreal, like a fraud. I never feel as if I show my true self. What …

My Path

How do I find the ‘right’ path for myself in life? What is it that I need to do in order to understand what my purpose is here? I just don’t get it. Each time that I think that I am on the right path, I realize that I seem to always be starting over. Am I really listening to …

Don’t Leave Me

What happens to us when we are rejected by someone that we thought that we loved? How deep does that pain go inside of us? Do we ever rid ourselves of that ugly feeling that we were not wanted? It does not matter how unhappy we were in the relationship, the idea that someone does not want us is extremely …

Forgiveness

Why can’t we forgive ourselves? It seems we can forgive everyone else but ourselves in the negative actions that we have taken in life. How unforgiving are we? Why is it that we can excuse others bad behavior but we dwell on our own and are relentless with self abuse? What does it really take to forgive ourselves? Do we …

Decisions

How much support do you think you really need from another person? Are you always needing more, does it never feel enough? What is it that you think you are really looking for? It is easy to say: “I just want someone to support where I am in life” but what does that actually mean? Has this need for others …