Why Did You Do This To Me?

Why did you make me feel that I was worth nothing and that you could not care about me at all? Why did you lie so many times when I begged you to tell me the truth about where you were? Why did you do this to me? Why do we really cheat on those we “say” we love? Why …

The Hero of my Own Life

Do you know what it means to be the hero of your own life? When something bad happens to you and it knocks you off your feet, how do you deal with it? Do you curl up into a ball and don’t get out of bed? Do you put your head in the sand and pretend that nothing happened or …

Shame on You!

Shame! Shame on you! Have you ever heard this said to you before? What is it that makes someone want to shame us? Parents think that this will teach children a lesson when they have done something bad but that is not the case. Shaming a child is a very negative act and if it is repeated many times then …

Can You Hear Me?

Are you afraid to speak up for yourself? Do you have the sentence formed in your mind but your mouth does not move? Are you frozen with fear when you want to speak up about something that is bothering you? You are not alone for there are many of us who are in the same situation. We have something we …

TRUE LOVE!

Love! The word has so many different meanings to it. Each one of us can define it in a different way. Some of us do not trust the word so we hold ourselves back, never really able to say the word. It isn’t that we do not “love” the other person, we just think if we do not say it …

Telling the Truth

Why don’t we tell the truth in relationships? It isn’t as if we are telling huge lies for if that was the case we would eventually get caught and the relationship would take on an entirely different meaning. We all tell little white lies and believe that we will get away with them.If we do get caught we usually say: …

Why Can’t I Say “I AM Sorry?”

Why is it we have such a difficult time saying “I am sorry”. What is it that we think that we will lose by taking responsibility for our actions that may have harmed or hurt someone else that we love? Do we always wait for the other person to say it first and then we say it in response to …